There was a time when I let jealousy, obsession, and hatred control my life.
Until I got rid of those three things, my self-esteem suffered.
I was jealous of my friends, people on TV, and even my sister. I would focus on
what they had and wish I had it. One thing I wished for was to have long hair. I
had to get over it. Now I'm just happy to have hair. I also used to wish that I was
prettier, but I'm over that too. There will always be someone that looks better than
When I was in school, I was obsessed with different guys. It not only drove them
away, but it made me look like a fool. I would write their names all over my note-
book and on every chalkboard and every classroom that I had been in. I was
embarrassing those guys and instead of liking me, they disliked me. Now I under-
It takes a lot of energy to hate. The person that I used to hate the most...that was
me. When I began to love myself, the hate, jealousy, and obsession went away. I
know I have no reason to be jealous of anyone. I have no reason to be obsessed
with anyone either and neither do you.
|3 Self-esteem Destroyers...gone!|