Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Toxic Love

I  know a woman who is in love with a man that makes her unhappy. There are
days when her boyfriend wants to spend time with her, but the next time she
sees him he doesn't want to be around her at all. Don't waste your time on toxic
love. The person you love should treat you with respect and make you feel happy.
If he acts like he doesn't want you...Girl let him go!

  It's toxic love if he:

  •  Seems to be using you for sex, money, your car, etc.
  •  Doesn't act like he cares for you
  •  Hurts you physically or verbally  
  •  Puts you down
  •  Leaves you feeling miserable

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Losing Your Temper

Several years ago, I was so upset that I took my anger out on one of my
mother's house plants. I saw the potted plant on the floor, kicked it over,
and stomped the entire thing--dirt and all-- into the carpet. I had lost my

I wasn't upset at my mom or the plant, I was upset with myself. I hated who
I was. I didn't like my hair, my school, or even the color of my skin. Plus, I
didn't have any friends, so I was very lonely. I didn't know anyone who was
as unhappy as me. I started this blog so I could help the people that feel as
sad as I once was.

When you don't like who you are you're more likely to lose your temper. If
you lose your temper quite often ask yourself this question: "Do I like who I
am?" If the answer is 'no' you must find a way to be happy, because when
you become a happier person you will be less likely to lose your temper. 

My blog post 5 Ways to Build Your Self-esteem Dream, is a good place to
start if you want to like yourself.