Wednesday, July 17, 2019
What should you do when someone you're related to (or close to) turns on
you? First of all, you must realize that when someone turns on you that
does not give you permission to turn on yourself. You're still important.
You're still lovable. You're still valuable.
If you think for a moment...I bet there are some positive people you can
turn to. It can be anyone you trust who always has a positive attitude
towards you. Tell them what's going on and you'll feel better; they may
even be able to help you.
When things aren't going right, this isn't the time to give up. This is when
you need to work extra hard to lift yourself up and ask for help if you need
Monday, March 11, 2019
I think we all worry a little more than we should. Wouldn't be wonderful
if we could eliminate at least some of our worries?
5 Things You Need to Stop Worrying About
1. Your cellphone's notification noises
Ding...click...smack...There is no way you can focus on anything but
your cellphone when it's making all of those noises. Whatever's going
on with the phone, will be going on later. Your cellphone cannot be
your life. In fact, it's why a lot of people don't have a life. Just turn the
cellphone notifications off.
2. Wearing only name brand or designer clothing
When you're buying clothes you need to pay more attention to the style
that you like to wear, and what the clothes are actually made of. Most
people that concentrate on wearing only name brand clothes have low
self-esteem, and you don't want to be like that. Clothes don't make you
who you are your personality does.
3. What other people have
Don't worry about what other people have, because I guarantee you
a lot of those people have something going on in their lives that you
want no part of. You've got to focus on improving yourself and your
4. Being in everybody's business
There's nothing wrong with talking to some people about what's going
on in their lives, but when you get to the point that the talking never
seems to end, and it's affecting your life it's time to get away from their
drama filled lives.
When was the last time you were on Facebook and it improved your
life? Facebook is good for finding long lost family members, but
that's about it. You're more likely to find out someone's political
views, see a dumb video, see someone bragging about what they
have, where they went, or who they're mad at. This is why I don't
Thursday, November 8, 2018
When I was younger, I wanted to do a lot of things: sing, act, dance,
gymnastics, and so much more. But guess what?...I did none of them.
My low self-esteem held me back. I was scared of what people would
do if they saw me. Would they laugh? Would I get booed off stage? I
was afraid I wouldn't be good enough. I think about this now, and I
wish I had tried at least one of those activities. I also wish someone
had encouraged me to try something that I really wanted to do, even
though I was fearful.
If you're scared, I want to encourage you to follow at least one of your
dreams. Tell yourself that you can be what you want to be, and don't
worry about how people will react. How can you ever be happy if you
are constantly worrying about what other people will say, feel, or think?
It's your responsibility to choose activities that will lift you up in a pos-
itive way. Even if you're not the best at something, the fact that you tried
may lead you to the life you desire.
Thursday, April 5, 2018
I know you can't help who you fall in love with, but if you're interested in
someone who is taken, you need to let it go. Why would you set yourself
up for a guaranteed heartbreak? I've known several women who started
dating married men, and none of those men left their wives. Don't be so
desperate for love that you're willing to let yourself be used by someone
who already has somebody else.
If you chose to start a relationship with someone who is taken you'll be
making a huge mistake. This is not a romantic or realistic situation. This
selfish cheater won't truly care about you. This person will not respect you.
You deserve to be with someone who wants only you.
Thursday, November 30, 2017
If You Feel Broken...
Make up your mind to improve your life.
Construct your existence so it feels just right.
No one has your soul and energy.
You're a person of value...
set your mind free.
We can all become better...
determine your how.
Don't wait for tomorrow;
just do it right now.
Decide your life should be a thrill.
And one day soon your heart will heal.