Create a More Enjoyable Life for Yourself

  

Are you laser-focused on your goals, or are you concentrating on things
that have nothing to do with the possible improvement of your life?

Imagine what your life could be like if instead of watching hours of TV, or 

scrolling endlessly through social media, you focused on improving your

life. I know there's something you want. There's something you wanna learn.

There's something you wanna try. If you have time to watch people (real or

make-believe) live the lives they want to live, you can make time to create a

more enjoyable life for yourself.

Don't Reject Compliments

 

About a week ago, someone told me I was "so perfect". My first 
thought was, "Oh my God I wish!", but instead I said, "Thank you!" 
Over the years, I've had to train myself not to reject compliments. I

know I'm not perfect, but the fact that someone wanted to tell me I am

is mind-blowing!

If you reject a compliment, it's almost like an insult to the person who

complimented you. They took the time to say something nice to you,

and it shouldn't be dismissed.

We don't always have to totally believe what people tell us, but if it's

something good, smile, take it in, and say, "Thank you!"

Don't Try To Get Revenge On Anyone

  

It's a fact. There are mean people in this world, and sometimes you 
might think revenge is a good idea, but revenge doesn't solve anything.

When you try to hurt someone because they've hurt you, you only hurt

yourself.

When people hurt me or they're mean, I try to stay away from them (if

possible) or interact with them only when necessary. You will never 

win by trying to get back at someone. These people eventually do more

harm to themselves without you doing anything.

So if you've been wronged, don't try to get revenge. Put your energy 

into being the best person you can be.

Are You a Pushover?

 

Sometimes when you're friendly and you're a good person, some people
see you as someone they can take advantage of. They think you're weak

and they'll ask you for anything and everything.

It's perfectly fine to help people if you can, but if that help starts to put

a strain on you, that's when you know you've probably helped too much,

or someone's asked you for too much. Helping someone should make

you feel happy. If it doesn't, that's when you know something isn't right.

If you're a pushover you'll start feeling dread every time you see that 

person..."Here they go asking me for stuff!" Don't help people to the

point that it hurts you.

Do You Cause Drama For Yourself And Others?

If you cause drama for yourself and others are you really happy? A life
full of drama is never boring, but it's not gonna improve your life. 

If you do a lot of gossiping, that makes you look untrustworthy. If you 

complain all the time, it makes others not want to be around you. If

you hang out with shady people, don't expect them to make you happy.

If it feels like everyone is against you, ask yourself if you're spending

time with the wrong people. Real friends will try to lift you up. Caring

people won't put you down. Responsible people try to stay out of trou-

ble. Quality friends aren't mean and lazy. Kind people make you feel

happy. What type of person are you?

Can you imagine what life would be like if you surrounded yourself 

with people who only wanted the best for you? Turn it into reality...It's 

all up to you.