Tuesday, December 1, 2020

Is Your Mate Controlling You?

Do you ever say, "He won't let me cut my hair.", "She won't let me
go shopping by myself.", or "He won't let me get a job."? If any
of this sounds familiar your mate is controlling you.

How do you expect to be happy if you can't make your own deci-

Is your mate stopping you from...
  • going back to school
  • coloring your hair
  • wearing what you want
  • eating healthy
  • seeing your friends
  • seeing your family
  • driving a car
  • wearing makeup
  • exercising
  • losing weight
  • following your dreams
You shouldn't be with someone who won't let you be you. You 
deserve to be the person you want to be, not the person someone
else wants you to be.

Wednesday, November 11, 2020

10 Reasons Why People Are Mean


Being mean is a cry for help. Mean people want their problems solved.
They have trouble figuring out how to solve, or deal with the issues 
they're having. When someone isn't happy it doesn't give them the
right to be cruel, but try to treat them with kindness.
A mean person might...
  • be in physical pain
  • be worried about a loved one
  • have lost a loved one
  • be worried about money
  • be hungry
  • have been abused 
  • have low self-esteem
  • have a jealous personality
  • be stressed out 
  • be mentally ill 

Tuesday, August 11, 2020

If You're A Racist You Have Low Self-esteem

If you believe one skin color is superior to another you're 
wrong. If you've grown up being told that your race is 
smarter, more attractive, or better than another...you've
been lied to. If you put people down, because their color 
is different from yours you're a racist, and you have low

People with self-esteem don't put others down because
of their race, nation, or ethnicity. People with self-esteem
spread happiness, positivity, peace, and love. They don't
spread sadness, negativity, unrest, or hate.

If you're a racist you don't have to stay that way. Find 
people of other races to spend time with. Read about the
history of other nations, or watch documentaries about
the history of other ethnicities. When you let go of the
hate you will be more content and happier.

Wednesday, January 15, 2020

Are People Taking Advantage of You?

There is nothing wrong with helping someone, but when you start to feel the
help has gone to far, that's when you know someone is taking advantage of 

I know a man who started driving for Uber, so he could pay off his large medi-
cal bills. When he told his mom he was driving for Uber, she started asking 
him for money. She asked him to pay some of her bills too, and she knew
about his financial issues.

I also know a woman who started dating a guy she met online, and not long 
after they met, he talked her into getting a credit card. Once she got the credit 
card, she charged some stuff for him: a game system, games, and even a 
cellphone. They didn't last long after that. He got what he wanted and she's left 
with the debt.

How do you keep people from taking advantage of you?...

  • Say no
          Even if you feel guilty say no, because what that person is requesting
          isn't good for you, it's only good for them.

  • Do a small favor that won't hurt you.
          If you do something small for someone test them out to see if it was
          a one time thing. If after the small favor they want more and more, it's
          time to say "no" to them too.