Are You Sending Out Positive Vibes?

 

When my son was a baby, strangers would say, "Oh she's so cute." or
"She's so pretty!" I would smile and say, "Thank you." I could've told

them it was a boy, but why do that? Always take a compliment with a 

smile. So imagine if I would've said, "It's a boy not a girl!" The posi-

tive vibe the stranger put out would've instantly turned into a negative

vibe.

When people talk to you, what kind of vibes do you think you're send-

ing out? Do you have a positive attitude, or are you a dark cloud? 

Most of the time people will treat you according to how you approach

them...It's that simple.

I don't believe we should be pushovers, but being nice will take you

much farther than walking around with a negative attitude.

Do You Let People Use You?

Have you ever done something for someone, but it didn't feel right? 
Did you feel used? It's OK to help people, but sometimes helping 

turns into enabling. The more you enable someone the more they're 

gonna want from you. They will get as much out of you, and from you 

as long as you let them.

Are you confused if you're being used or not? When you help somebody

you should feel good about it, but if you're being used you will feel bad 

about it. If you start to feel bad about helping someone, that person has

probably crossed the line into the using category. It's time to stop being

an enabler for that user!

You can decide how to stop being used. You can either slowly stop 

helping them, or stop altogether. Either way, you have to stop letting

people drain you of your time and happiness. 

You Deserve Time For Yourself

    

If you're always busy and it feels like you never have time for yourself,
you've got to solve this problem. When I don't set aside time for myself

I feel drained, unmotivated, and unhappy. 

Schedule time for yourself like you'd schedule a doctor's appointment.

I don't want you to feel guilty either. You deserve this. You need this.

How To Schedule Time For Yourself:

1. Write down everything you have to do for each day 

    of the week.

2. See what you can do less of, or eliminate completely.

3. You will realize that there are blocks of time you can

    schedule for yourself.

You're As Good As Anyone Else

 

Do you ever wonder how someone was able to accomplish their
dream? They did it because they believed in what they were doing,

and they weren't gonna let anything get in the way. You can also be

the person who does something you've always wanted to do...if you

make it a goal. 

A good way to start the path to your goal, is to follow positive people

on social media who are doing what you wanna do. They can provide 

a proven blueprint to your future success. 

You're good enough. You're smart enough. You have to be willing to

try. Everyone started with no experience at the thing they seem to be

an expert at. Waiting won't make your dream come true. Go make it 

come true. You're as good as anyone else.

Is Your Mate Controlling You?

Do you ever say, "He won't let me cut my hair.", "She won't let me

go shopping by myself.", or "He won't let me get a job."? If any

of this sounds familiar your mate is controlling you.

How do you expect to be happy if you can't make your own deci-

sions? 

Is your mate stopping you from...

• going back to school
• coloring your hair
• wearing what you want
• eating healthy
• seeing your friends
• seeing your family
• driving a car
• wearing makeup
• exercising
• losing weight
• following your dreams
• BEING HAPPY?!!!
  

You shouldn't be with someone who won't let you be you. You 

deserve to be the person you want to be, not the person someone

else wants you to be.