Confidence = Happiness

Confidence = Happiness

If you're confident, it is a lot harder for someone to upset you, or make you do
something that you don't want to do. Confidence is powerful; you see situations
in such a way that only a confident person can. Confidence is like a strong shield
that can protect you from the many negative influences that you may face.

It's a lot easier to be happy when you're confident. When you don't worry about
what other people might think of you. When you don't worry if you're 'good
enough.' When you don't give up on your dreams...that's confidence...that's
happiness.

• Find ways to improve your life.
• Never give up on your dreams.
• Decide to live a positive life.

  

Calling and Texting Too Much

Have you ever wanted to be with someone so much that you decided to call and
text endlessly? Did that person seem to want to hear from you? If you feel like
the person you want to talk to doesn't want to talk to you, you might want to leave
him/her alone.









I used to be the type of person who believed if I let a guy know how much I
wanted to be with him he would want me too. I did this for years, then finally I
realized..."If he wants to be with me, I shouldn't feel like I'm chasing him."

I know it hurts to be ignored, but the person ignoring you may not have enough 
guts to tell you that they don't want to talk to you or be with you. Also, there is
such a thing as calling and texting too much. You can easily push someone away
if you call and text so much that he/she can't get anything done.

What Is Your Talent?

I might not know you, but I know you have at least one talent. Are you using your
talent to improve your life? Are you using your talent at work? Can you help other
people with your talent?

What is your talent?

 



It's amazing to me when I talk to people and I find out what they do on the side
or for fun. Have you ever thought about turning your talent into an occupation?
If there is something that you love to do and you're good at it, you should incor-
porate that activity into your life every day.

A Few Talent Examples To Get Your Mind Going:

• interior designer
• organizer
• mechanic
• translator
• dancer
• writer
• hairstylist
• cook
• musician
• photographer
• artist
• repairman
• gardener
• manicurist
• realtor   

Toxic Love

I  know a woman who is in love with a man that makes her unhappy. There are
days when her boyfriend wants to spend time with her, but the next time she
sees him he doesn't want to be around her at all. Don't waste your time on toxic
love. The person you love should treat you with respect and make you feel happy.
If he acts like he doesn't want you...Girl let him go!

  It's toxic love if he:

•  Seems to be using you for sex, money, your car, etc.
•  Doesn't act like he cares for you
•  Hurts you physically or verbally  
•  Puts you down
•  Leaves you feeling miserable

Losing Your Temper

Several years ago, I was so upset that I took my anger out on one of my
mother's house plants. I saw the potted plant on the floor, kicked it over,
and stomped the entire thing--dirt and all-- into the carpet. I had lost my
temper.

I wasn't upset at my mom or the plant, I was upset with myself. I hated who
I was. I didn't like my hair, my school, or even the color of my skin. Plus, I
didn't have any friends, so I was very lonely. I didn't know anyone who was
as unhappy as me. I started this blog so I could help the people that feel as
sad as I once was.

When you don't like who you are you're more likely to lose your temper. If
you lose your temper quite often ask yourself this question: "Do I like who I
am?" If the answer is 'no' you must find a way to be happy, because when
you become a happier person you will be less likely to lose your temper. 

My blog post 5 Ways to Build Your Self-esteem Dream, is a good place to
start if you want to like yourself.