Monday, December 31, 2012

Secret Relationship

I remember liking a white boy and he liked me too, but he said
we could 'go together' if I didn't tell anyone. I was very hurt. It
made no sense to me to be his girlfriend in secret. He didn't
want anyone to know he had a black girlfriend. After that day,
I decided I couldn't be with anyone who was ashamed of me.

You never know where a secret relationship may lead you. I
know a man who thought he had a secret relationship. He met
a girl and he didn't find her attractive, but he thought he'd use
her for sex. A few weeks later he had a baby on the way.

If someone you are dating wants to keep your relationship a secret, that's not a
good sign. He may be embarrassed to be seen with you, or he may have some-
thing to hide. The person you have a relationship with should be excited and
proud to be seen with you. A secret relationship will probably hurt you, because
he may never tell anyone about you, or he may be planning to drop you like a
hot potato.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Confidence = Happiness

Confidence = Happiness

If you're confident, it is a lot harder for someone to upset you, or make you do
something that you don't want to do. Confidence is powerful; you see situations
in such a way that only a confident person can. Confidence is like a strong shield
that can protect you from the many negative influences that you may face.

It's a lot easier to be happy when you're confident. When you don't worry about
what other people might think of you. When you don't worry if you're 'good
enough.' When you don't give up on your dreams...that's confidence...that's

  • Find ways to improve your life.
  • Never give up on your dreams.
  • Decide to live a positive life.

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Calling and Texting Too Much

Have you ever wanted to be with someone so much that you decided to call and
text endlessly? Did that person seem to want to hear from you? If you feel like
the person you want to talk to doesn't want to talk to you, you might want to leave
him/her alone.

I used to be the type of person who believed if I let a guy know how much I
wanted to be with him he would want me too. I did this for years, then finally I
realized..."If he wants to be with me, I shouldn't feel like I'm chasing him."

I know it hurts to be ignored, but the person ignoring you may not have enough 
guts to tell you that they don't want to talk to you or be with you. Also, there is
such a thing as calling and texting too much. You can easily push someone away
if you call and text so much that he/she can't get anything done.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

What Is Your Talent?

I might not know you, but I know you have at least one talent. Are you using your
talent to improve your life? Are you using your talent at work? Can you help other
people with your talent?

What is your talent?


It's amazing to me when I talk to people and I find out what they do on the side
or for fun. Have you ever thought about turning your talent into an occupation?
If there is something that you love to do and you're good at it, you should incor-
porate that activity into your life every day.

A Few Talent Examples To Get Your Mind Going:

  • interior designer
  • organizer
  • mechanic
  • translator
  • dancer
  • writer
  • hairstylist
  • cook
  • musician
  • photographer
  • artist
  • repairman
  • gardener
  • manicurist
  • realtor